* The Ladies of Llangollen.
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A newspaper article says the Ladies of
Llangollen became Ireland’s “first known lesbian couple” years before it was
decriminalised.
The precise relationship of the two women who
fled from their homes in British-ruled Ireland in the late 18th
century to famously set up home at Plas Newydd has long been the subject of
debate.
Many claim Lady Eleanor Butler and Sarah
Ponsonby were like-minded friends while others believe they were linked romantically.
However, a story in Ireland’s Sunday Independent
last weekend describes their status in very definite terms.
The subject of the ladies, who both lie buried
beneath their own memorial in St Collen’s churchyard in the town, was raised by
the newspaper ahead of a vase featuring them coming up for auction in Ireland
early next month.
The story says: “Two Irish aristocratic ladies
known as the ‘two most celebrated virgins in Europe’ became Ireland's first
known lesbian couple centuries before it was decriminalised.
“The Ladies of Llangollen - Eleanor Butler and
Sarah Ponsonby, two upper-class women from Kilkenny - scandalised society and
had to elope to Wales in 1778.
* Plas Newydd.
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“Eleanor was the youngest daughter of the Earl
of Ormonde of Kilkenny Castle. She was said to be clever, bookish and satirical
but at 39, was viewed as a spinster.
“Her family considered putting her in a nunnery.
Some 28 kms away, at the mansion of Woodstock House and gardens, Sarah
Ponsonby, a 23-year-old orphan, was fending off the unwanted attentions of Sir
William Fownes, her married middle-aged guardian.
"His wife, Betty, whose health was
deteriorating, was loved by Sarah. However, William was over-eager in his hope
to take Sarah as his second wife, leading her to flee with Eleanor.
“The pair met after Eleanor was asked by both
families to mind Sarah, who was attending Miss Parke's School close to Kilkenny
Castle in 1768.
“Both women felt trapped in an unbearable
situation. Clandestine correspondence led to their decision to elope to Wales
together.
“Dressed as men and travelling by horse, they
rode overnight to Waterford. But luck was not on their side, as their boat did
not sail, and the pair were forced to hide in a barn. They were caught and
taken home. Sarah fell seriously ill with a fever, but Eleanor, faced with
incarceration in a French convent, ran away again - to hide in Sarah's bedroom.
“When this was discovered, the Ormondes refused
to collect their daughter and the Fownes family caved in. Sarah and Eleanor
were free to go.
“Living first in a rented home in the village of
Llangollen, they moved in 1780 to a small cottage that they called Plas Newydd
or "new mansion". They developed their home in the Gothic style with
Welsh oak panelling, pointed arches, stained glass windows, and an extensive
library, in which they received guests.
“Their house became a haven for visitors
travelling between Dublin and London. William Wordsworth wrote a sonnet about
them. Other visitors included Lord Byron, Sir Walter Scott and the Duke of
Wellington. Queen Sophie Charlotte of Mecklenburg-Strelitz, persuaded King
George III to grant them a pension.”
“Mealy auctioneers are holding an auction on
July 10 and 11, and selling a vase detailing the two ladies. George Mealy said
the piece was reflective of ‘the brave women’.
"Obviously the unusual curiosity piece is a
great conversation starter. These two women paved the way and took a leap of
faith in a time when it was taboo and became infamous at that time."
The auction catalogue, which has the vase at lot
number 195, describes it as: “A porcelain Group of two Ladies wearing Hunting
Attire, German (Bisque) “The Ladies of Llangollen,” together with a blue two
handled Vase with coloured print transfer of the “Ladies of Llangollen,”
unusual and rare. The guide price is €80 – 120.